YOUR NEXT READ Episode #12: Leverage by Jaemin Frazer

Life coach and author Jaemin Frazer believes that ‘don’t change the people you love’ may be the single worst piece of relationship advice ever given.

This may sound confronting – but the stark reality is that if you don’t find a way to change those you love, there’s a high chance your needs will not be met. You’ll be left feeling resentful and frustrated, and what started out as a loving partnership will deteriorate into a managed arrangement.

Developed and refined through over 15,000 coaching sessions, Jaemin explains why he developed the groundbreaking Leverage framework and how his new book will help you improve the quality of your relationships – starting with your relationship with yourself.

Topics covered in this chat include:

  • Why you must do work on yourself before you’re qualified to bring change to someone else
  • How to tell if your relationship is in intimacy or an arrangement
  • How to apologise well to clean the space and rebuild trust

You can listen to Your Next Read on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. 

Leverage: How to change the people you love to get the relationships you deserve is available now.


Jaemin Frazer is an author, TEDx speaker and coach. He is the founder of the Insecurity Project and specialises in helping entrepreneurs, leaders and business owners eradicate insecurity so they can show up to life unhindered by doubt, fear and self-limiting beliefs. He is widely recognised as one of Australia's best life coaches and a leading voice globally on the subject of personal insecurity.

Jaemin is the author of Unhindered – The seven essential practices for overcoming insecurity and Elegantly Simple Solutions to Complex People Problems, and the voice behind the popular ‘One minute coach’ radio segment heard by over 750,000 listeners daily.


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